What the “Buffyverse” Got Wrong About Consent

Consent is a hot topic on the internet right now, and there are a lot of great metaphors out there for how it works. There’s an article that’s been going around about borrowing a friend’s car, one about stealing money, [...]

By |2021-12-14T18:03:35-08:00July 31st, 2018|Categories: books movies television etc, Uncategorized|Tags: , |Comments Off on What the “Buffyverse” Got Wrong About Consent

How Harry Potter Helped One Woman Make Peace with Her Trichotillomania

About 10 years ago, my friend Harrison tossed a CD at me and said, “you have got to hear this album.”  At the time, Harrison and I were deep into a genre of music called wizard rock, which was – [...]

By |2021-12-14T18:04:25-08:00April 16th, 2018|Categories: books movies television etc|Tags: , , , |Comments Off on How Harry Potter Helped One Woman Make Peace with Her Trichotillomania

Nice is Different Than Good

We all know the story of Little Red Riding Hood.  She’s on her way to Granny’s house when she encounters a Big Bad Wolf who turns on the charm, waylays her, and coerces her into spending a bit more time [...]

4 Self-Help Books Actually Worth Reading

“You have to read this book.  It’s called “Be Your Own Windkeeper”.  It’s about how women need to be more empowered.  Oh, but there’s wind!  And the wind can make us goddesses.  But do you know who takes our wind?  [...]

Ado Annie and the Slut-Shaming Fallacy

“I’m just a girl who cain’t say no!” proclaims Ado Annie (prounced Ay-doe Annie), from Rogers and Hammerstein’s 1943 musical Oklahoma! by way of introduction. Poor Ado Annie.  She’s so confused about what’s okay and what isn’t.  Everyone tells her she [...]

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